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Valentina's Diary

The Diary of Spiritual Discoveries by Valentina

February 9, 2025

Life’s a school – This is how you’ll be its best Student

Some people let themselves get incredibly stressed by life, forgetting that we can’t go wrong in life. As usual, this is so much easier said than done, and I’m one the first people on earth to get stressed by little…

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January 25, 2025

Toxic Spirituality – This is a trap you should never fall into

As I have more and more be trying to understand why we choose certain lives for us – even ones that cause us suffering – I have started to fall into this trap. I call it toxic spirituality. Spirituality is…

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December 21, 2024

This is how to get to know yourself!

This is the Art of getting to know who You are There is one simple thing that helps me keep my head above water in times where I feel like too many things I can’t and don’t want to handle…

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December 9, 2024

This is how to make a decision in life if you feel lost…

It amazes me over and over again how I end up in situations where I really need advice that I wish I had within but I don’t because I’m only a human. And then going through difficult phases I have…

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November 17, 2024

The hard Life – How to overcome difficult Stages in Life

Lately, I was wondering why it is that sometimes our lives feel so enchanting, and inspiring and good. And then the next day we wake up, we feel bad, we lost our spark, our energy, our inspiration, our motivation and…

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October 6, 2024

The Pursuit of Happiness – Why we just can’t be happy

In the Dalai Lama’s words as a spiritual mentor I trust. And so I’m super interested in one of his books I’m reading at the time. Are you ready to hear which insights about the acquisition of happiness I had…

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September 8, 2024

Kill your limiting beliefs – and watch your life transform

Limiting beliefs – ugh. When I only think about them it gives me a headache. Limiting beliefs are like the potential I wrote about last week – just the opposite. We can’t see them, but they secretly decide in what…

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September 1, 2024

Most people waste their potential – don’t be one of them

“The life you could have lived lies in the work you’re avoiding” A few days ago, I heard Jordan Peterson talk about one’s potential and how most people waste most of it nowadays. And it left me thinking. Potential is…

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August 18, 2024

Read this when you don’t like your life or yourself

Sometimes I wonder what the main thing is that can pull us out of the misery we sometimes found ourselves in. What is it that keeps us going? Well, naturally, I’d say it’s spirituality. That’s also the reason why I…

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August 10, 2024

Can I balance a spiritual and a material Life at the same time?

I know that it sometimes seems like the only people who are truly spiritual, who can call themselves old souls, are the ones who have absolutely no possessions, have no sex in all their lives and only sit there, meditating….

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June 23, 2024

Are you your own best friend or your worst enemy?

“Make sure your worst enemy doesn’t live between your own two ears.” Laird Hamilton It was a friend of mine who recently asked me ‘you’re your own worst enemy, aren’t you’? He caught me by surprise with this question. I…

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May 13, 2024

How to face your Fear of being alone

As I had one of those deep conversations with a friend of mine a few days ago, I had a few realizations. One of the main things we talked about was about spending time with people versus spending time alone….

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The one simple thing you need to understand about The one simple thing you need to understand about manifesting if you're confused

This is the one piece of information I had to learn to finally understand why manifestation felt difficult for me and easy for others. Here's how simple it is to understanding the core and most important insight about manifestation. Just in case you're curious ☺️

#spirituality #manifestation #confusion #basicprinciple #identity #actions #perceive #wanting #lawofattraction
The hard Life - How to overcome difficult stages i The hard Life - How to overcome difficult stages in Life

Life can just change up from feeling enchanting to overwhelming and incredibly stressful. Here are a few explanations why that happens and tipps on how to handle such situations. Is it challenge or chance? Is a situation easy or right? Hard or wrong? Feel free to go get the insights 🥰

#thehardlife #spirituality #experiences #challenges #chances #rightorwrong #hardoreasy #goodorbad #difficulties
The Power of Trust - How to make your mind your bi The Power of Trust - How to make your mind your bitch

I have personally learned what it's like to be stuck in an endless loop of bad days, thinking it has just turned into a bad life. Even when, most of the time, this is not the case at all. So here's what I remind myself of regularly to get out of that negativity cycle and be able to appreciate the wonder that life is again and to ✨trust✨ in the good things that are coming.

#spirituality #trust #perspective #thistooshallpass #mind #positivethoughts #overwhelmed #selfcriticism
Lost touch with Spirituality? 5 Things to do to re Lost touch with Spirituality? 5 Things to do to reconnect

It's very easy for us to get lost in our busy lives and let ourselves be overwhelmed by stress and anxiety. Where should we start if we want to get back in touch with spiritual practices that used to keep us so grounded and relaxed? How can we incorporate spirituality in our daily lives to stay connected? Well, here's everything I have come up with. For sure  you'll find something that'll help you. Or so I hope <3

#spirituality #intouch #relaxation #grounding #reconnect #dailypractices #inspiration #routine #wellbeing
The Pursuit of Happiness - Why we just can't be ha The Pursuit of Happiness - Why we just can't be happy

A few days ago, I wondered what it would take for us to be truly happy. Well, the realisation was that we in the world have unlearned how to be truly happy and fulfilled! Why is that? And is there a cure for our misery and a way out? An essay inspired by one of Dalai Lama's works <3

#spirituality #happiness #thepursuitofhappiness #dalailama #misery #appreciation #thewesternworld #happy #americandream #luxuries
These are 7 of the best spiritual mentors out ther These are 7 of the best spiritual mentors out there! 

Mentors are a great thing if you're looking to grow, especially when it comes to an abstract thing like spirituality. You can lean on them and look for advice if you need it. I'm sure they have a few answers to your problems and can share an inspirational thought or two. See which ones have made me learn and become more curious so far. I bet you'll like them too :) 

#spirituality #mentors #guidance #help #inspiration #growth #company
Death and Loss - How to deal with difficult situat Death and Loss - How to deal with difficult situations

When someone suddenly dies, we could face pain and grief like we never have before in our lives. Here's a few spiritual explanations and insights that can help you see your new difficult situation in a different light and why death's not all bad. Read more...? 

#spirituality #death #loss #rightorwrong #naturallaw #growth #grief #sadness #difficulttimes difficultsituations #pain #spiritualinsights #spiritualexplanations
Kill your limiting beliefs - and watch your life t Kill your limiting beliefs - and watch your life transform...

Your limiting beliefs stand in the way of who you could be. We oftentimes have no idea how they limit us in our daily lives. I invite you to read more to find out where they come from, how they show up in our lives and how we can get rid of them for good. But remember - it takes practice <3

#spirituality #limitingbeliefs #reflection #fight #valid #inyourhead
Most people waste their potential - Don't be one o Most people waste their potential - Don't be one of them!

Ignoring your own potential would be silly. It could turn you into a superstar. Feel welcome to read this week's blog if you're looking for motivation, inspiration, things to do or not to do. You're at the right place if you're looking for reasons to take charge of who you could become... <3

#spirituality #potential #passions #changeishard #habits #responsibility #opportunity #thingstostart #thingstoquit #spiritualpotential #whoyoucouldbe
This is why you should embrace a broken heart! Th This is why you should embrace a broken heart!

This found you because maybe you needed to hear it... A broken heart is not only a bad thing. If we learn how to embrace it, it can help us get ahead in life. There are namly very valuable lessons in a broken heart. Which ones? Time to find out :) 

#spirituality #brokenheart #feelings #emotions #lettinggo #experiences #advantage #wisdom #thistooshallpass #bitterness #openheart
Read this when you don't like your life or yoursel Read this when you don't like your life or yourself...

It can feel so terrible to be stuck in a bad phase in life. Nothing you do really brings you satisfaction, you feel lonely, stuck etc. I listed a number of good reasons why we should actually appreciate the f*ck out of our lives. And what you can do to feel better about yourself. If you care to read more I welcome you on my blog <3

#spirituality #suffering #probability #pain #appreciation #gift #odds #life
Can I balance a spiritual and a material life at t Can I balance a spiritual and a material life at the same time? 

Do we have to stay totally abstinent and not own anything, give all our money away for others and not drive a nice car e.g. just so we can call ourselves spiritual? Can we balance these two types of life? How? If  you're interested in what really makes a life spiritual, feel free to read more <3

#spirituality #materiallife #sacrifices #generosity #possessions #status #peaceofmind #worldly #value
This is how to find your passions & purpose in Lif This is how to find your passions & purpose in Life...

What is the best thing we could do if we lack passions and purpose in Life? Why are they so important for us? Why could they give so much meaning to our lives? Feel free to read more in case you're interested in different types of purpose - inward, outward, private, public... and want to know how to find it. Have fun :))

#passion #purpose #creativity #creation #personal #social #innerchild
What kind of diet do spiritual mentors recommend? What kind of diet do spiritual mentors recommend? This one... 

Is there such a thing as a 'spiritual diet'? Well, there are certain foods that got recommended over and over in several books I've read. They also talk about things we should not consume! Find out what they are in case you're curious and read more <3 

#spiritualdiet #energy #nutrients #addictivefoods #alive #deadfood #addons #healthy #meat #hydration #spiritualmentor #diet
Celebrate your emotions: Anger, Fear and Sadness - Celebrate your emotions: Anger, Fear and Sadness - Find out why!

We often label emotions as good or bad; anger, fear and sadness being part of the latter category. However, us having these emotions shows how much our inside cares about us. The movie Inside Out (2) explained this very well. Read more to find out what I mean by that <33

#emotions #insideout #anger #sadness #fear #anxiety #overthinking #bestforyou #senseofself #lettinggo #joy
6 spiritual reasons why your body deserves more ap 6 spiritual reasons why your body deserves more appreciation

I know how hard it can be to like the body we were given. However, the body that we have was gifted to us by a higher power and deserves much more appreciation than we usually give it. Here are six reasons, six purely spiritual ones, that explain why we should love the body we have 🩵

#body #appreciation #choice #gift #experiences #influence #attraction #spirituality #reasons #selflove
Are you your own best friend or your worst enemy? Are you your own best friend or your worst enemy? 

Some people are their biggest supporter and their own best friend, while others are their worst enemy. Those people usually do several of 9 things I listed in my blog that hurts their self-growth and impairs their life quality. Are you one of them?

#ownbestfriend #ownworstenemy #betrayal #selflove #peoplepleasing #selfsabotage #overthinking #boundaries #selfcare #innerwounds #regret #spirituality
How our past lives determine what kind of life we' How our past lives determine what kind of life we're living today 

As souls that are on a journey of growth and improvement, we usually have lived a number of lives. And what kind of lives those were in the past has an impact on the next - ergo this one as well. Did you have an accident? Did you loose someone important? Have you (not) found your soulmate? Why is that? Find out what role past lives play in this interesting game 🎲

#pastlives #choice #options #lessons #experiences #currentself #balance #karma #relationships #past #present #future
Does the Universe fight for souls to be together? Does the Universe fight for souls to be together? 

Nothing can be more heart breaking than finding the right person at the wrong time. But what if that means that they weren't in fact the right person? Or it just wasn't the right time yet? Do we get another chance with someone that could be our soulmate, even if we missed them the first time? 

#souls #soulmates #universe #destiny #rightpersonwrongtime #therightone #choice #secondchance
How to master the art of self-forgiveness! The a How to master the art of self-forgiveness! 

The ability to forgive yourself is the first step in healing your wounds and starting the journey of self-growth. Why is it so necessary, though? And how is it done? What if I struggle with my self-esteem? Can I still do it? Find answers on valentinasdiary.com :) 

#selfforgiveness #selfgrowth #youngerself #past #present #future #selflove #innerchild #life #guilt #shame
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